We forget that children are not capable of handling some situations in the same manner that adults are, including stress management. Worse, something we can easily overlook could be a major source of worry for our children. For instance, arriving at school to find the desks set differently than they had been all year or having a replacement teacher instead of their normal teacher might generate a lot of worry for some kids.
If your child is having frequent breakdowns, having nightmares or trouble sleeping, or being suddenly clingy, your child might be experiencing a significant amount of stress. If you notice a change in your child’s behavior, trust your instincts that something is wrong and try these tips to help them cope with stress more easily:
1. Let them know it's fine to discuss it. Some children have trouble expressing themselves or are hesitant to communicate what they are thinking. Make it plain to your child that it's fine to talk about their feelings if they aren't feeling well. Allow them to express themselves to you, whether they are afraid, apprehensive, worried about something, or anything else.
2. Encourage and assist your child in finding something good in a tough moment in their lives. Instead of being concerned about having a replacement teacher, remind them that they will have the opportunity to meet a new instructor who they may enjoy even better than their normal teacher. You might also attempt to reassure them that they are in good hands with the substitute and that their usual teacher will return shortly.
3. Teach your child simple stress-relieving tactics like counting and breathing, doing something they enjoy, or talking about their problem.
4. Create routines that will assist your youngster in unwinding after a hectic day. This could include some cuddling and a goodnight tale, or listening to their favourite music as they get ready for bed.
5. Be sure to spend enough quality time with your children each day. This will help them to become more self-confident and assured. As with everything else, you are their role model and seeing how you deal with your own stress (provided it is a healthy response) will teach them the tools they need to manage their own.
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